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Thursday, January 19, 2006

DEAR,

Relationships are held in Trust.There are expectations to be met, rights to grant and responsibilities to upkeep.When the Trust is affected, the dynamics of the relationship changes.For example, children are punished when they misbehave for their parents have entrusted them to behave well and accordingly.What was first loving and gentle becomes firm and harsh.We are tasked with all that we are given in the Trust that we will carry them out well.Because we can, so we will.Life is about Trust.Break that Trust…and you serve time.Lose that Trust…and you will pay dearly for your crime.Some say that Trust is to be gained.

The longer you know the person, the more the Trust fostered.In direct proportion, this incremental kind of Trust begins with a note of apprehension and pessimism with the attitude of wanting to be proved wrong.Some say that Trust is to be given.I begin by giving full trust to you, 100% and no less.It is up to you to maintain that trust or to decrease it.There is a hint of positivism and….ironically, trust.

To me, the breaking of the second Trust hurts more.There is disappointment.There is self-inflicted guilt.There is denial.There is anger...and a whole rainbow of other emotions.The first I call ‘The Jigsaw’.You wait to put the jigsaw pieces together.In the beginning, you may not see the picture yet and so you exercise caution.Only when you begin to see clearer do you relax your guard.The second I call ‘The Patches’.It begins as a whole.Over time, some parts may be dented, torn, ripped, broken, smashed, bleed, scarred and more.It ends in a patchwork of sorts.One believes in the foibles of humanity.The other believes in the good in humanity.Thus…The beauty of one is in its final pristine condition.The beauty of the other is in its final battle scars.I know the strengths of Woman and the failures of Man.You were right that we are more able to accept the shortcomings of our other halves better than they accepting ours.Where Man look at the physical, the Woman looks into the emotional.Often, we see only what we want to see.

I apologise for adding to your hurt when I asked that you give the benefit of the doubt.I do not accept it either now.But there is still that chance of redemption.Would you be gracious enough to give?My dear, it touches me that you hold on to my words that ‘True Love withstands changes’.Thank you for that Trust. I am deeply humbled.Know too, dear, that we must first define ‘True Love’ before this statement stands.Regardless, hold on to these next few words of mine too.Have Trust that I am here for you the best I can as long as God permits.I will make good your Trust in me…for you.

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